Love Is Sexy

Over 24 years later, we're still in love.

Strip Club

stripper-poleI know, strip club isn’t the politically correct term for these places of adult entertainment, but that’s what they are! If you are not visiting these places with your significant other, you are missing out! I know that my enjoyment is increased tenfold when my beloved is with me.

There is something very sexy about viewing erotic dance with your partner. it not only titillates but it gives ideas for our own private times. It is extended foreplay to go with your partner, believe me! My wife has bought lap dances for me and we have spent time together sharing a trip to the “V.I.P.” room. It built up some incredible sexual excitement in both of us and the sex we had when we got alone was amazing. As she called it, “it was mind blowing sex”.

This trip was no different. We were a bit turned off by the foul music some dancers chose and there were others that were obviously wanting to be somewhere else, but there was also a couple that were true professionals and cared about the entertainment value their time on stage presented.

Once we finished our time enjoying the adult entertainment, we headed back to our motel room and this is where things exploded! We did things we had never done before, we tried some things that pushed our own boundaries a little bit further out and we exhausted ourselves in some of the greatest sex of our relationship.

Next up, all the fun we had. You won’t want to miss it!


November 5, 2010 Posted by | Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Out of Town Sex




Over this past weekend, we had some of the best sexual interactions of our nearly quarter century long love affair.

The weekend involved an out of town trip, some late night adventure and the predictable beginning of what we like to call “out of town” sex. The annual trip for my family reunion was the event that triggered the domino effect; trip, motel, club, familiar sex, hot motel sex!

The trip was by car and our destination was over three hundred miles from home. This is more than a sufficient distance from our home to allow us the feeling of anonymity that always interjects spice into our interactions in public and a bit of devilry into our attitudes. Have you ever wanted to play at being someone other than yourself? Going out of town is one of those times when you can act more extroverted, be a bit more aggressive, flirt a bit more when in public or any combination of all of these attributes. Playacting and letting your hair down with each other is definitely a spice that all life should seek to add!

Over the next four updates, I’ll talk about the other stages of our experience last weekend. It was amazing!

October 26, 2010 Posted by | Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Not As Advertised


The world of age and marital sex isn’t this dark, foreboding world of decreasing returns and debilitated physical abilities. It is anything but. Something we have discovered is that, if anything, our personal lives and especially our sex lives have seen an improvement as we continue to grow together.

We really do look forward to finding our footing here on the blog and sharing these things with all of you. After over 24 years together, we are happy and excited about our lives. After 40 sex isn’t as advertised, it is so much better than that!

October 16, 2010 Posted by | Uncategorized | 2 Comments

Sex After 40

Sexy Neon

A lot of folks say that sex diminishes and eventually leaves your life completely as you age. Well, we’re here to put that silliness to rest. Our sex life after 40 is anything but diminished. We are enjoying the best sex of our lives.

We are brand new at blogging so we may experience a few oddities as we grow, but I am confidant that we will never be boring.

October 10, 2010 Posted by | Uncategorized | 2 Comments