Love Is Sexy

Over 24 years later, we're still in love.

Motel Sex


When we indulge ourselves and stay in a motel, whether it’s out of town or across town, we take full advantage of the opportunity for great sex.

Settling in to a motel is exciting for us because we know this is our time for letting inhibitions go, trying something new or just getting wilder than we are able to at home. The fact that we don’t know the people on the other side of the wall lends a certain devil-may-care attitude to our lovemaking and we usually find ourselves going at each other quite lustily and in an elevated tone of voice. In other words, we scream and we say “fuck me” a lot. LoL Can you say hot sex in the city?

So, we’ve taken a trip out of town, we’ve located a room in a motel with a bed and a TV for background noise and we have the next night or two of sexual freedom looming in our future. Taking advantage of these times is important to keeping you excited with your sex life. It’s also important to use these times for exploration and expansion. Have you been wanting to see how that new position you read about feels? Do you have an urge to tie up your lover and spank her, or him, with a firm hand? Outside the walls of your own home is the best place for experimentation of the wilder kind. If things get too wild, you won’t have to explain yourself to anyone down the hall and if things go a bit awry, you don’t have the memory imprinted in your own bedroom. Both observations are important to both of our long term sexual health.

These “sex getaways” have become our pressure release valve. These are the times we can cut loose and howl at the moon. If you find yourselves feeling like you’re in a rut and you have a hard time remembering your last time on an overnight excursion, maybe it’s time to get away and screw each other back into sanity. Get out of the house and get a room!



October 31, 2010 Posted by | Motel | Leave a comment

Out of Town Sex




Over this past weekend, we had some of the best sexual interactions of our nearly quarter century long love affair.

The weekend involved an out of town trip, some late night adventure and the predictable beginning of what we like to call “out of town” sex. The annual trip for my family reunion was the event that triggered the domino effect; trip, motel, club, familiar sex, hot motel sex!

The trip was by car and our destination was over three hundred miles from home. This is more than a sufficient distance from our home to allow us the feeling of anonymity that always interjects spice into our interactions in public and a bit of devilry into our attitudes. Have you ever wanted to play at being someone other than yourself? Going out of town is one of those times when you can act more extroverted, be a bit more aggressive, flirt a bit more when in public or any combination of all of these attributes. Playacting and letting your hair down with each other is definitely a spice that all life should seek to add!

Over the next four updates, I’ll talk about the other stages of our experience last weekend. It was amazing!

October 26, 2010 Posted by | Uncategorized | Leave a comment

HNT #1 (Half Nekkid Thursday)


This is our very first, ever, HNT post!

night out2

October 21, 2010 Posted by | HNT | , | 2 Comments

Not As Advertised


The world of age and marital sex isn’t this dark, foreboding world of decreasing returns and debilitated physical abilities. It is anything but. Something we have discovered is that, if anything, our personal lives and especially our sex lives have seen an improvement as we continue to grow together.

We really do look forward to finding our footing here on the blog and sharing these things with all of you. After over 24 years together, we are happy and excited about our lives. After 40 sex isn’t as advertised, it is so much better than that!

October 16, 2010 Posted by | Uncategorized | 2 Comments

Sex After 40

Sexy Neon

A lot of folks say that sex diminishes and eventually leaves your life completely as you age. Well, we’re here to put that silliness to rest. Our sex life after 40 is anything but diminished. We are enjoying the best sex of our lives.

We are brand new at blogging so we may experience a few oddities as we grow, but I am confidant that we will never be boring.

October 10, 2010 Posted by | Uncategorized | 2 Comments